Self-Help Favorites

I was recently asked which are my favorite self-help books to find healing.  So I perused my shelves and pulled out the ones that I have found most helpful for myself and the clients that I have worked with over the years.  Here are the top 6: 1.  The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work […]

Love means having to say you’re sorry.

Love means never having to say you’re sorry. * Oliver Barrett IV (Ryan O’Neal) in Love Story, (1970) I first came upon this quote when I read the book Love Story by Erich Segal over twenty years ago.  It is an idea that I have puzzled over so many times since.  It seems to me […]

More About Reflections

Why do I keep falling in love only to have my heart broken again?  Why do I fall in love with people who are so wrong for me?  Why can’t I get over her?  Why does my ex hate me so much?  These are questions that I hear over and over in my office.  Humans […]